How to Support Someone With Mental Illness
Talking about mental illness and mental health struggles is one of the best types of therapies. However, many people don't know how to start conversations or help in other ways. Below is a list of things you can do to support someone with mental illness.
1. Recognize Warning Signs of Mental Illness
If you notice that somebody seems tired, restless or agitated, simply asking the person about how they are feeling is always a good idea. Some other warning signs that something could be seriously wrong include expressing negative thoughts, joking about suicide and mental health, and expressing decreased confidence. Again, if you notice any of these signs, you should always ask how the person is doing. Sometimes this simple recognition of their thoughts and feelings can help improve someone's mental state tremendously.
2. Let People Know That You Care About Them and Support Them
You can limit someone's feelings of loneliness and isolation by letting them know that you are there for them and that you care about them. Let them know that you are open to talking about anything that they feel that they need to talk about, and let them know that you accept them for who they are regardless of their mental health.
3. Offer to Help Them Seek Professional Help
If you are concerned that someone may be struggling, ask if they have considered seeking professional help. Don't try to force them to seek help, but simply let them know that since you care about their well-being, you would support their decision to seek help in developing coping strategies.
A List Of Good Statements to Start The Conversation:
1. You are not alone in this.
2. I will always be here for you no matter what.
3. I may not completely understand what you are feeling, but I will always support you and offer compassion.
4. I am not going to leave you or abandon you.
5. You can always talk to me about anything. I'm always listening.
A List of Things That You Shouldn't Say to Someone Struggling With Mental Illness:
1. Do not ask them to explain why they are feeling a particular way.
2. Do not try to offer your opinions about their feelings.
3. Do not say that the solution is simple or that they should "just do" something.
4. Do not tell them that everyone goes through times like this and that they will get over it.
5. Don't tell them to "not worry" or "not to be sad."